metricjulie:

Trigger warning: sexual assault.

I thought it might be pertinent to refresh everyone on what consent is, and teach a little about making sure you get enthusiastic consent before engaging in sexual relations. To me, enthusiastic consent means “YES HOLY GOD YES I WANT THIS SO…

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WORD to all of this. Just WORD.

And then comes the oh-so-awesome part where they do listen and stop, but are all ‘Woe is meeeee’ about it. Like YOU are witholding something from them that is rightfully theirs.

“The Iron Vagina is mine by right!” shut up Stannis

Oh, and the POUTING. And the silent treatment. Yeah, I’ve gotten this bullshit, too, and it makes me feel like I’m in a relationship with a toddler. Except toddlers can’t help it.

*whinewhine YOU HAVE A VAGINA AND YOU’RE NOT SHARING whinewhine*

Oh yes, baby, whine at me some more! NOW I’M HORNY. *barf*

But seriously. Yeah, it’s nice to be desired sometimes, but when your desire takes precedence over my desire just to be with you, that is an indication that you have some serious work to do with respecting other people’s boundaries.

Your desire, your problem. Control it, and stop acting like a fucking martyr. Nobody ever died of this.